DIBIA NWANGWU UCHENDU

Habit is a regular practice that is hard to give up. It is an acquired behavior that has become involuntary, gotten from force of habit. This is a learned behaviour that becomes reflective over time. There are types of habits: Motor habits, intellectual habits, habits of character. Today, I write about those habits that bring grave negativity into our lives. Habits can make or break your chances of achieving and maintaining life goals. Every right thinking person knows that habit can shape one’s life but adopting healthy routines will shape lives to be better. Therefore as a Dibịa, I encourage you to build intrinsic motivation for a better habit. Likely habits that develop into negativity in one’s life are:

1. Nocturnal activities. This entails going out late in the night, partying, going to the market at night, having rendezvous when you should be indoors with your family. Many shop at night because of cheap costs of food items, clothes, shoes other wares. In Igbo land, we respect norms and ethics guiding our community, am not trying to scare anyone but we live in perilous times. Apply caution lest one attract evil eyes. Your spiritual guides are not happy when you cannot differentiate between right and wrong. Good and bad spirits exists, if as a woman you stay out late the possibility of having an encounter with evil spirits, angry spiritual spouse, demons, occultic persons are ominously possible. This is a likely time for predators, night marauders to trap and catch their victims.

2. Going To The Beach at Night.
Most spiritualist will say that is, the time to communicate with one’s marine family. Some will opine that is best time for spiritual works and it will go through immediately. Some, say it is when to receive power that is above every other spiritualists, the list is endless. The beach looks inviting, lovely, tempting and beautiful at night, the calm breeze is soothing and draws attention to your heart, let me burst your bubble, ọ dịkwa very risky! Pneumonia, rapists, killers, evil forces roam around, they lurk at the corner then target their prey! Do not fall prey and be used for a useless sacrifice or initiated forcefully into what you know nothing about. A roaming unfilled spiritual spouse can attack or possess beautiful ladies and men. Sorcerers hunt for humans, do not be their food or fall victim if they need blood or a life to suck into oblivion. Even in diaspora, their beaches are not safe so do not worry about you being resident in Nigeria. It is not safe. Stay home.

3. Gluttony.
The love of food has sent many to early grave. I advise you to be very careful of what you eat. Do not eat anywhere you see food wether in public, restaurant, buka, hotels, parties, strangers or even friend’s house. Except you are very conversant with the person. There are foods prepared as rituals without the spiritual unconscious person’s knowledge. There are evil food vendors who prepare food using water gotten from bathing corpses to cook in restaurants. Some evil food vendors use human parts as meat to initiate ignorant people. Many things happen and food is the easiest bait to trap anyone that is unsuspecting. Recently, a woman was caught, cutting up a dead body as meat for public consumption. She owns a restaurant and might have killed her sister to use as meat. Fortunately, she was caught and charged to court with the exhibit of human carcass. Tụfịakwa! Great Dibịas do not eat outside, they prepare their food by themselves. Food is used to initiate children, anyone into the evil cult, the reason mother’s warn their children never to accept food outside. Be careful, with what you put inside your mouth. Be disciplined as many have died simply because they cannot refuse an invitation to eat out.

4. Avarice.
The love of money is avarice and an excessive love for money is being avaricious. Money is a spirit. Do not love it too much, else you find yourself hooked to money. Why people join witchcraft covens or occult groups is because of their excess love for money. Such love leads to reckless living. Some people do everything possible to make money in other to live a luxurious lifestyle. Many engage in hideous rituals to make more money and satisfy their lust and quest for materials things in life. The excessive love of money is the root of evil. A lot of women sell their bodies through prostitution to wear the latest fashion. Many young men engage in fraudulent activities to make money. They do not want to be industrious nor work hard in life, living large is what ails them. It brings misfortune and calamities which are the negativities in the life of such individual.

5. Sexual Intercourse With A Woman During Her Monthly Flow.
Many will argue that medically women ovulate during their mensuration and therefore stand a chance of taking in. A timely advice to the ladies, do not permit your partner to have sexual intercourse with you during your monthly flow as it is not good spiritually. It closes the door of prosperity over time and attracts negative aura to both parties. Wait for mensuration to stop, give eight days gap for your woman to dry up completely. Allow her carry out cleansing rituals, if she is spiritually inclined before engage in hot sex with your spouse. Ever wondered why most women were rejected when caught in the den of ritualists? It is because their menstrual flow started, it is powerful enough to spoil charms or their deities “nsọ”, forbids a woman in her monthly flow from entering their shrine. Many spiritual homes barred women from being present during spiritual activities during their mensuration. Many female Dibịas avoid their altars until they are through observing their periods.

6. Cunnilingus.
This is giving head to a woman, oral sex. To be explicit, sucking a woman’s vagina. The vagina is a sacred opening and the beginning of every human creation, every human came through this birth canal. It is not good to put your tongue in there. This act can disconnect one spiritually. Moreover, the woman you are giving head, do you know how many men went in there? The number of sexual partner a woman has will determine what will mar her life completely, if she does not practice abstinence or stick to one faithful partner. Fellatio is oral sex on a man. But who knows who is loyal and faithful among sexually active men and women? It is not written on the face. Making it habit brings negative aura, jinx and setback becomes dominant in both the ‘header’ and ‘headee’. Health wise, it is very dangerous as it causes cancer of the oesophagus. Infection can be transmitted easily through this act. Many will argue this, alright do what pleases you. I have educated you.

7. Night Travelling.
Many young people prefer to travel at night because they feel the highway is clear of traffic. It is better to travel during the day time,so one can arrive safely at their destination. Evil people masquerade as highway robbers can attack any vehicle and take human hostages. If ladies are captured unfortunately, they might be raped, sold as modern day slaves, killed or maimed. Many have encountered ghosts, ritualists while traveling at ungodly hours. Some men will meet evil spirits in human form and have sex with them. Tribulations will set in their lives. They start having sex in the dream, or see themselves in another world, with no knowledge of how everything started. The women experience hardship, setbacks, failure in relationships, strange men coming to sleep with them at night. The list is endless. Avoid night crawling and travelling, so all will be well with you.

8. Human Trafficking. This is the height of moral decadence that pervades our society. How can one uproot another from their ancestral lineage and sell them off to another? Some people willingly give themselves up in other to chase after the golden fleece abroad. They want to make it at all cost. Whenever humans participate in such, they end up ruining lives. Their lives and that of those sold off to become sex toys in countries where prostitution is encouraged are never the same. Nevertheless, engaging in such attracts badluck, death, blockages.

9. Disregard Of Divine Call In One’s Life.
Many people who are chosen to serve humanity and mankind but choose to disregard their divine calls, always go through hard times. They experience constant spiritual stealing each time they veer off their destiny and life path. The married ones marriages crash and they end up in divorce, Financial hardship, Broken relationships, Hatred, Setbacks feature permanently in their lives. This is because many do not want to serve humanity in Ọdịnanị Igbo way. Many ignorant people see that as evil and demonic. Failure to heed and answer one’s divine call can bring death, accident or sickness to the chosen vessels and carriers of power in their lives. The spirits of stagnation, setbacks, greed, evil, bad luck, promise and fail, lust, failure at the edge of breakthrough will glue to that person. Try to find out your area of calling and do your best to answer without fear. It is a privilege and honor to be chosen by Chineke to serve through our ancestral spiritual lineage.

10. Stealing.
This is taking what does not belong to you. Stealing can be spiritual or physical. Spiritual stealing is worse because you will not be aware its happening and never know the spirits stealing from you. Physical stealing entails robbing with a gun, pickpocketing, embezzlement, looting, forcefully taking someone’s property, among others. Stealing attracts instant curse from the universe. A person cannot take what belongs to another person and cause them pain when they toiled day and night to make money. Their hard earned money, sweat and reward of labor. Many people create problems for their generation, they come under a curse as a result of stealing. Thus, the spirit of stealing is deposited permanently in their lineage,when people they stole from place curses on them. Nothing can save such offenders except they confess, cleanse themselves before Ajani and seek for forgiveness.

TIPS TO IMPROVE AND CULTIVATE A BETTER HABIT.

1. Make good friends.
2. Minimize distractions.
3. Avoid stress.
4. Be spiritually Inclined.
5. Set goals for your life.
6. Reward yourself whenever you feel positive about yourself.
7. Engage in exercise.
8. Always be mentally prepared.
9. Avoid tempting situations.
10. Replace bad behaviors with good ones.

There are many things that brings negativity into the life of an individual. Let me stop with these few that I listed and explained. Bad habits attract negativities to us. Not really the village people. Remember, whatever a man sow, that shall he reap. Avoid bringing negativity into your life. Always be kind and stay true to yourself.

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